Hospital Staff Arrange Unforgettable Wedding for Patient’s Son at Crosshouse

A patient at University Hospital Crosshouse was able to see her son marry in a heartwarming ceremony arranged by dedicated hospital staff.

Photo: NHS Ayrshire & Arran

Carol, from North Ayrshire, who was receiving care on the hospital’s gynaecology ward while in the later stages of cancer, watched proudly as her son James, 38, and his partner Shoni, 30, from South Ayrshire, exchanged vows in an emotional ceremony held on the ward last month.

The couple had originally planned to marry next year but decided to bring their wedding forward after Carol’s sudden diagnosis. Staff at the hospital rallied together to make the day unforgettable, transforming a room with flowers and balloons, while the catering team supplied food and drinks and the Medical Photography team captured the special moments.

James and Shoni were joined by close family members, ward staff and hospital managers for the intimate ceremony. Both families expressed their gratitude for the care and compassion shown by everyone involved.

Head of Nursing for Women’s and Children’s Services, Caroline Blake, said: “It had been a difficult few months for Carol, becoming so unwell and facing such a challenging time. Being able to watch her son get married was truly wonderful, and she was so happy.

“The staff genuinely care about our patients and were determined to do everything they could to help make the wedding happen. It was a humbling experience for the ward team to share such a special moment with Carol and her family.”

James said: “It was always a dream of my mum’s to watch me get married, so when I found out how ill she was I knew right there and then I wanted to make her wish come true. Having my mum there was really important for me. She was not just my mum, she was my best friend and the one person I could count on.”

Shoni added: “Getting married to James knowing Carol was going to be there meant more to me than any big fancy wedding. When we look back at pictures and see Carol there, we just know we made the right decision.”

The couple praised hospital staff for their efforts, saying: “We both also want to thank the staff for the time and effort they put into making the day as special as it could be for all of us. The fact they were able to arrange everything in just 24 hours was just incredible. It’s a day we both will never forget.”